Well well, these monday evenings are coming around very quickly which means it's time to let you all know about my fascinating dating life. It isn't really that fascinating at all to be honest and quite frankly i am bored of it!
I began this week speaking to a 'nice' guy via text- yes we progressed to swapping numbers which i felt extremely brave for doing. So anyway, this nice guy texts...and he texts...and for god sake he doesn't stop texting me verging on the point of harassment.
It was endearing at first, thinking 'aww he's pretty nice, in a good job, oh look another message,' before i'd even replied to the last one. Maybe it's the old cliche of preferring the chase which i actually hate when it comes to a guy i would really like to just catch me, but in this instance i found it a bit desperate seeings as we are still strangers really.
So this had to end and feeling a little mean and definitely guilty- I haven't replied to any of said messages, deleted his number and avoided all conversation, so maybe he has taken the hint...?
The rest of my week was pretty boring in all honesty, i was still receiving messages from men half my size and double my age so i have come to the conclusion tonight that this website is seemingly full of all those little short men that have been rejected by woman who like their men tall. Said tall men being extremely hard to find.
I actually never thought i had a 'type' of man, didn't think i was particularly fussy until this website came along and made me confirm everything i want in a boyfriend. So i tried being a little more open minded, thinking that maybe a 6'2, dark featured, rugby enthusiast might be limiting my options somewhat. However i really have not had any luck in finding my mr right on this website. If anything it has made me more determined to catch a strangers eye on the street and hopefully strike up a conversation that way as opposed to searching endlessly through the pages of desperately intense men looking for 'the one'.
Maybe i am taking this whole thing a little lightly compared to some of the people on there which may be why i am having zero luck, but seriously, there are only so many profiles i can look through without getting bored of the same old thing.
Don't get me wrong i have spoken to a few other nice guys who have asked if i would want to go for a drink- but this is my other dilemma. I am so busy at the minute i find myself having to book them in advance over the next few weeks, so it's a little easier to say, 'I'll let you know when i'm free?' This probably sounds like a bit of a cop-out, how can you be tooooo busy for a date?! But there we have the bottom line that i'm not all that bothered if we go on a date or not- making me think they are not that man for me. When i 'find' him or he 'finds' me (I would rather meet him in all honesty as i've said before) and i actually think he could quite possibly be god's gift to women all over the world then yes, i will make time to go on a date but right now- these men are boring me to the point where i could quite happily stay single just a little while longer!
So there we have it- another week of this online dating, hoping i can deal with another and praying it won't be as frustrating or depressing as this one has been :-)
My man is out there, and i quote (from wedding crashers) 'I will find youuu...' but in all seriousness and a less creepy note- i am still hoping :-)
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